Cultivating Humility in a Post-2020 World

A biblical virtue characterized by a modest and unpretentious attitude towards oneself and others, humility demands an honest recognition and acceptance of one’s strengths and weaknesses without pride or arrogance. Humility is not about self-deprecation or undermining one’s worth. Rather, humility helps us maintain a realistic and grounded perspective about our abilities and achievements.

Humble people demonstrate a willingness to listen and learn from others. They readily acknowledge not knowing all the answers. They recognize that they don’t know everything. Humble people show respect. They value the contributions and perspectives of others. Humble people recognize that everyone has something to offer.

“Pride makes us artificial, humility makes us real.”

Thomas Merton

Humility also involves an absence of superiority or a sense of entitlement. Humble people treat others with kindness, empathy, and dignity.

We must not confuse humility with self-abasement or lack of confidence. Humility fosters a balanced view of ourselves. When we are humble, we recognize our strengths and limitations. We remain open to growth and self-improvement. Humility involves an authentic sense of interconnectedness with others mixed with a willingness to contribute to the greater good without seeking personal recognition or validation.

In essence, humility is a quality that fosters a deeper understanding of oneself and others. It leads to increased empathy, learning, and personal growth.

“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.”

C.S. Lewis

Cultivating humility is an ongoing journey. Below, I’ve listed some practices that I believe can help us develop and nurture humility. I certainly don’t have any of these down pat. I’m still learning myself.

1. Self-reflection: To cultivate humility, we need to take the time to honestly assess our strengths, weaknesses, and limitations. We must reflect on our actions and motivations, while considering how they impact others. For me, humility means that I need to acknowledge that I don’t have all the answers. Humble people know that they can always learn from others.
2. Ask others for feedback: Personally, this one is difficult for me. I’m not lacking for unsolicited feedback from others. This is especially true at work. It’s important to note that this is intentional feedback that we seek from trusted others in our lives. Like it or not, everybody has their opinion of you. That’s not what you’re looking for. You are actively soliciting input from close friends, colleagues, and mentors. Yes, you must be open to receiving constructive criticism. Seize it as an opportunity to grow. Listen attentively, ask for different perspectives, and be willing to own your mistakes.
3. Be Willing to Learn from Others: Embrace the idea that everyone has something to teach you. Approach every interaction as an opportunity to learn from others, regardless of their background, position, or expertise. Be open-minded and receptive to new ideas and alternative viewpoints.
4. Practice empathy: Putting yourself in others’ shoes helps you understand their perspectives, experiences, and emotions. Developing a genuine interest in people and their stories nurtures your spiritual journey. By empathizing with others, you will develop a sense of humility and appreciation for the broad perspectives and diversity of the human experience.
5. Express gratitude: Be a gratitude magnet. Develop a habit of expressing gratitude for the people, experiences, and opportunities in your life. Recognizing that you are part of a larger network of support and that you wouldn’t be where you are without the contributions of others is a key element in developing humility.

Remember, cultivating humility is a lifelong process that requires a lot of self-reflection, intention, and consistent practice. Humility is about recognizing your own limitations, valuing others, and continually striving to grow and learn.

Now go and be humble!

May the Lord bless you and sustain you.

Rainer Bantau

The Devotional Guy™

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