Wednesday Wisdom | When You Feel Disrespected at Work

Have you ever walked out of a meeting, closed your office door, or ended a shift thinking, “Did they really just treat me like that?” Disrespect at work can feel like a slow leak in your soul, gradually deflating your confidence, clouding your purpose, and trying your patience.

I’ve been there. Maybe you have, too.

Whether it’s being interrupted mid-sentence, having your ideas overlooked, or being dismissed by someone who doesn’t see your value, disrespect hurts. It stirs up anger, frustration, and, sometimes, self-doubt. Over the years, I’ve learned that how we respond can either restore our dignity or make the wound deeper.

Here’s some wisdom I’ve picked up along the way:

1. Pause Before You React

There’s power in the pause. Not everything needs an instant reaction. Sit with it. Pray on it. Reflect.

Proverbs 17:28 NIV

Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.

Sometimes the disrespect isn’t about you. It might be about their own insecurities, frustrations, or blind spots. That doesn’t excuse it, but it helps you carry the weight differently.

2. Remember Your Identity

You are not defined by your job title, your annual review, or your boss’s attitude. You are a child of God. Your worth is not up for debate.

“You are not what others say you are. You are what God says you are.”

Max Lucado

You don’t need their validation to stand tall. You were already called, chosen, and commissioned.

3. Speak Up with Grace

Silence can protect you in the short term—but over time, it can turn into resentment. If the disrespect continues, it’s okay (and necessary) to say something. Not with bitterness, but with boldness and clarity.

Try something like:

“When I’m interrupted during meetings, it makes me feel dismissed. I’d appreciate a chance to share my thoughts fully.”

That kind of language isn’t confrontational; it’s constructive. I think it it shows strength and self-respect.

4. Discern the Difference Between One-Time and A Pattern of Behavior

A one-off bad day is forgivable. A consistent pattern of disrespect is a red flag. If it continues unchecked, it may be time to document incidents, involve HR, or pray about whether it’s time to move on.

Even Jesus dusted off His feet and walked away when He wasn’t received.

5. Protect Your Peace

This is your mental, emotional, and spiritual territory—guard it.

Proverbs 4:23 NIV

Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

You don’t have to internalize the chaos. What they say about you, how they treat you—it doesn’t have to take root in your spirit.

6. Take the High Road, Not the Easy One

Anyone can retaliate. Anyone can gossip or grow bitter. Thats easy. It takes a different kind of strength to stay gracious and grounded. You can be kind without being a doormat. You can speak firm without being harsh. You can be a light without letting others dim you.

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If you’re dealing with disrespect at work, you’re not alone. And you’re not powerless. Whether you stay, speak up, or step out, do it with wisdom. Do it with grace. And above all, do it with the quiet confidence that comes from knowing you are deeply loved and divinely purposed.

Keep your head up. Keep your heart clean.

You were made for more than surviving toxic spaces. You were made to bring light to them.

Have you ever been disrespected at work? How did you respond? I look forward to reading your comments!

Until my next post…

Be salty, stay lit.

Rainer Bantau —The Devotional Guy™

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