What If Suffering Were Your Blessing?

A #Lent26 Reflection

Lent invites us to walk slowly through suffering, not around it, or above it. Through it.

Lent serves as a time for us to draw closer to God through prayer, sacrifice, and reflection, often involving giving up certain luxuries or indulgences to focus more on spiritual matters.

For forty days, we resist the urge to rush to resurrection. We linger in wilderness. We sit in ashes. We tell the truth about our hunger, temptation, weakness, and longing.

And somewhere in the quiet, a dangerous question rises:

What if suffering were your blessing?

That question feels almost offensive. We do not call cancer a blessing. We do not call betrayal a blessing. We do not call job loss, loneliness, depression, or public failure blessings.

And yet Scripture dares to speak this way.

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.

Romans‬ ‭5‬:‭3‬-‭5‬ ‭NLT‬‬

Lent dares to hold suffering and grace in the same trembling hands.

The Wilderness Is Not Wasted

Before ministry, before miracles, before crowds, there was wilderness.

Even Jesus Christ was led there.

Hungry.
Tempted.
Alone.

The wilderness was not a detour. It was preparation.

We tend to label seasons quickly as failure, loss, abandonment, or punishment.

In reality it’s formation

The very thing stripping is down is also strengthening us. That’s a blessing.

The Blessing You Didn’t Ask For

Listen: No one prays for suffering.

However, many of us have quietly discovered that the seasons we would never repeat are the seasons that most profoundly changed us. Lent teaches us that death and resurrection are not separate stories, but one movement.

The cross is not an interruption of blessing. It’s the doorway.

That doesn’t make pain pleasant.
But perhaps, it makes it purposeful. And that’s a blessing.

When Suffering Strips Away Illusion

Sometimes suffering is the only thing that tells us the truth because it reveals where we were performing instead of living, where we were striving instead of abiding, where we had mistaken applause for calling, and where we believed holiness meant exhaustion.

Our suffering exposes what comfort conceals. It shows us WHO we actually trust.

Sometimes, what feels like loss is really the collapse of illusion. That collapse hurts. But it is mercy. And that’s a blessing.

Lent is an invitation, not a a prison sentence. It does not glorify pain. Rather, it invites us to walk honestly through it.

If you are in a hard season right now, consider this gently, not as pressure, but as possibility:

What if this is not the end of your story, but the deepening of it?

Lent teaches us that glory often comes disguised as surrender. Meanwhile, beneath the surface, something holy is being formed.

And that’s a blessing.

A Prayer for This Lenten Season

Dear Lord, Our God,
If this suffering is shaping something good in me, give me the courage not to run from it. Strip away what is false.
Refine what is true. Resurrect what feels dead. And when I cannot see the blessing, hold me fast until I can. In Jesus’ name, Amen.


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Friend, suffering is not your enemy. It’s the soil.

Be salty, stay lit.

Rainer Bantau —The Devotional Guy™


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2 Comments

  1. Yes, indeed He does. And nobody, including me, desires suffering. But in my walk with God, I’ve been shown this and learned it to be true that sometimes (as the song says) our blessings come in raindrops and is found in our tears. Thanks so much for reading and sharing your thoughts, Willie. I hope to see you participating in our #Lent26 blogging collab 4 Christ. Blessings.

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  2. Willie Torres Jr.'s avatar Willie Torres Jr. says:

    This is a word many hearts need right now.

    Suffering never feels like a blessing. It feels heavy, unfair, and lonely. But sometimes God does His deepest work in the places we would never choose. What breaks us can also build us.

    James 1:2–4 tells us to consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials, because the testing of our faith produces perseverance and maturity. Not because pain is good, but because God is good in the pain.

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