Where’s the Exit? | Hiding in Plain Sight

The last few days have been a struggle. Here’s what I shared on my Substack page just now:


“There are days when I want to hide my mental illness. The last few days have been like this, especially yesterday. The term illness sounds ominous. Thirty years ago, I struggled with addiction. Sssh. Don’t tell anyone. The last 18-24 months, I’ve struggled with complicated grief and post-traumatic stress disorder. Sssh! Don’t tell anyone. Yes, there are days when I want to deny it. There are days I don’t want to accept it. But, here I am. Where’s the exit?


Friend, perhaps you’re struggling today, too. Hit me up. Let me know in the comments.

Me and Rice

Until my next post

Be salty, stay lit.

Rainer Bantau —The Devotional Guy™

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1 Comment

  1. I understand the stigma, brother. Physical wounds are more noticeable and generally accepted by society. In contrast, mental wounds can be harder to detect and considered less acceptable.

    I prefer the term “mental exceptionality” over “mental illness.” I’ve also heard someone with a disability say they were “handi-capable.”

    Regardless of the terminology, we can see the positive aspects if we approach it the right way! Whatever that is. 🤗

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