Recovery is a total overhaul of our mind, body, and spirit. It is a constant, ongoing process. You can graduate from a program, but you never graduate from your recovery. Even after you overcome your habits and hang-ups and find healing from your hurts, the work of recovery continues. Like the process of sanctification, the journey of recovery transforms us daily, correcting our skewed inner navigation system. We are all flawed. We are all a little damaged. No one drives life’s highway without getting dinged up. At the end of the road, none of us even get off the highway alive.
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romans 12:2 (ESV)
Recovery is about living. Addiction is about dying. As addicts, regardless of habit or hang-up, we die to self a bit every single day. The longer we remain embroiled in the turmoil brought on by our darkest demons, the more of our self we lose. We find ourselves wandering aimlessly off-course, struggling to find our way home.
“Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!”
Psalm 46:10 (ESV)
But, the good new is that recovery works if you work it. We avoid getting too far ahead of ourselves and certainly we must not get ahead of God. His desire is for us to walk with Him, just as Adam and Eve walked with Him in the Garden (Genesis 3:8). When we walk with God, it fosters closeness, intimacy and fellowship. Spiritual growth occurs. Our spiritual growth and transformation help us remain in a state of recovery. Recovery is not a stagnant but ever-developing, altering states just like water forms into ice and ice evaporates into a gas.
Our recovery requires our active participation, monitoring our thoughts and behaviors, continuing to learn and practice new skills, developing and growing our support system, and being alert and watchful to triggers and temptations to use or return to our addictions of choice. We must stay vigilant, guarding against relapse.
Step 1: Honesty
“Admit that you, of yourself, are powerless to overcome your addictions and that your life has become unmanageable.”
The work of recovery is hard but it is also rewarding. The work we do in the rooms and through our programs helps us rebuild broken relationships. Recovery brings new people into our life as well, providing us with friends who walk with us, mentoring us, and most of all, holding us accountable. We can experience happiness because we learn to quickly forgive wrongs and readily admit when we messed up and need to apologize and make amends. This keeps the list short and our burdens light, replacing pain with joy. Through recovery we can live the abundant life our Creator intended for us to experience this side of Heaven.
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.”
John 10:10 (ESV)
My friend, continue to press on, one day at a time, and even sometimes one moment at a time.
Very powerful words! As you have stated, healing is a journey and in admitting our weaknesses, He can and will heal us.
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Thank you. I am glad this post impacted you and love that you took time to comment. Blessings.
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Thank you so much for this! I stumbled across this accidentally ……..well actually it was no accident. God brought me here. I just have no idea how lol. Yet I am grateful. I needed to read this and I needed to say out loud that I am starting a journey that I absolutely cannot take alone. I look forward to reading more of your messages ( I am thinking I am supposed to call them blogs lol) and am sure I will be touched by them all in a very positive way. For today…..I am comforted and inspired. All of my best to you, amy
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I am so glad the Lord led you here Amy. It may sound funny but my brother-in-law and I were just talking about my blog tonight and I mentioned to him that just when I need it most, God has a knack for having people reach out to me about the good this blog is doing in their lives. I’m happy you are here. You’ll find I cover a variety of topics, but focus on faith and recovery (they go hand in hand in my mind). Please feel free to reach out anytime. I’m honored to help you in your journey anyway I can. Know you’re not going it alone. Blessings.